It has been a long time I did not have the chance to reflect on my life and appreciate all the intensive experiences that have been given to me to show up in this world! With a heart full of gratitude, I am writing these words to honor the stories that brought me to where I am today and helped shaping my life into my current profession: a professional life coach who is fully committed to serve and to help people to transform their lives through heart-to-heart connections.
It was a dark night in a southern rural town of Vietnam, I was in my late teen at the time, and was ready to embark on a journey on a boat with my brother to escape communism. The boat was 15 meters long, but there were 300 people on that boat. We made it to the international border, and there were two big holes in the boat that caused issues. The captain decided to take the boat back to the shore… about 300 meters from the shore, the boat started sinking.. three hundred people crowd became so chaotic. Those who could swim jumped into the water and tried to swim to the shore, those who couldn’t hold on to the boat. My brother and I did what we need to do, swam to the shore and escaped the capture of local police officers and finally made it back to Saigon safely. Not everyone on that boat was that lucky. Half of the people died. I witnessed the first time in my life the fine line between life and death, and never forget those people who paid the highest price for freedom: their own life. This intensive experience stayed with me until today and became a flame in my heart reminding me how much blessed I am to achieve the freedom of living in America, the blessing that half of those people on that boat died without achieving it. Not every moment staying alive that I do not appreciate the gift of life, the gift of freedom that I receive from this country whom I am honored to call “home” in these past so many years. I am a proud Vietnamese American!
Fast forward, I came to Canada after several unsuccessful escapes, became Canadian citizen, graduated from college, found the love of my life and got married and moved to the United States, became active with the communities and became American citizen in 2000. It has been a beautiful journey for me to serve this great country as a proud citizen in the past 18 years. I remember vividly as I stood in front of 700 ladies and gentlemen (mostly ladies) to deliver my acceptance speech for the Americanism medal awarded by the Honor Society of the Daughters of American Revolution (DAR), listening to the national anthem being sung with so much patriotism… and given that I just lost my own mother a week before, I was deeply moved and touched. A sense of gratitude and loving was just so overwhelmingly felt in my body and I said the word “THANK YOU” again with a new meaning, the meaning of commitment to give back to deserve this precious freedom that I am given, the meaning of commitment to serve and to give! It was the night when I became solid about the new mission and the new purpose of my life: living a life of service through loving, giving and serving.
The year of 2017 was the year of transformation when I had to go through quite a few setback in life with my husband’s hospitalization in which I nearly lost him, followed by my mother’s departure, and then my father’s passing only six weeks afterward… Within the first six months of the year, I lost the two rocks of my life, my beloved parents, and coping with my husband’s illness while making the decision of stopping my corporate work to dedicate full time for the non-profit organization that my husband founded 12 years before. And yet, I never felt so much alive and full of an inexplicable energy that lifted my spirit up and carry me so far! It was also through this turbulent time that I learned about the power of life coaching and how coaching can transform my life from darkness to light, from the deepest sorrow of my soul to the highest level of fulfillment. Going through these experience myself truly confirmed the mission in life for my next chapter: to bring more lights to this world through a life of service, through the non-profit work that my husband and I have been involved in the past three decades, and through the work of a professional life coach to help transform my clients’ life through a heart-to-heart connection, one person at a time!
I know that in my heart, I am ready to serve, to love and to give! I would like to end this note with Mother’s Teresa’s beautiful words